KATHLEEN FORD OBITUARY Kathleen DuRoss Ford, 80, passed away on Friday, May 8, 2020 in Pittsburgh, PA. She was born on February 11, 1940 in Belding, MI to Charles and Hazel (Irwin) King. Then it all clicked. I didnt choose this. Read it here. Suicidal people should not be shunned. Thats several times what most women experience and it doesnt even include unconfirmed perps. This site is provided as a service of SCI Shared Resources, LLC. Its just part of who I am. Join Facebook to connect with Kathy Ford and others you may know. Ford's cause of death was unclear, butshe suffered from multiple health conditions and had undergone a double lung transplant in recent years, her sister said. I would cherish that person. Therefore, even with a random sample, the police will improve their behavior. The ratio of male sex offenders to women is several times worse for women in those environments than in other environments. People are choosing what city to live in based on report cards police wrote for themselves. If that did happen, we have someone matching the profile of an intimacy stalker. She was raised and nurtured in a loving home by her parents Edward and Gracenia Williams. No. I was the third. If people know you have a will that outs all the nastiest people you encounter, maybe they wont bother you in the first place. We all need to be reporting our sex offenders to her. You will worry theyre milking you. Thats definitely true. You have had a near miss. Charm is something manipulative people often use that I read about in books about sociopaths, too. I could have done that to you. Diana's Kathy Ann Ford, 62, died of COVID on August 27, 2021, in the intensive care unit of the Good Shepherd Medical Center. I think there need to be regular reporting events where everyone is invited to report to police as part of a group or to support others. The level of enthusiasm and dedication I would offer would be a costly signal that I really needed them. Kathy Louise Ford was born on May 2, 1953 in Austin, Texas to the late Kathleen Shelby and Charles Amos. Well, its because other people expect me to somewhere in the same ballpark of as optimistic as they are. I would suffocate in stifling, unengaging work and feelings of isolation. I tried to tell people about this lock-in problem from the moment I arrived in these movements. Negotiate or specify a costly signal that makes sense. Am I making false accusations? Patrick Robotham is the most brilliant rationalist Ive ever gotten to know. This can be a very heroic trait. This note should never be used to advocate suicide to a vulnerable person, and should be presented with context, warnings, and advice about what to do to seek help. DIED. Keep going slower until the amount of time you prevent from being wasted is about equal with the amount of time it takes to find / stop the mistakes. Trading it for food or money would probably traumatize me. Two of the main suicide risk factors are feeling like a burden and feeling alone. If I cant have my personhood, my moral weight, and my dignity, then neither can you. ^ I dont have enough information on most of them for super highly accurate results about whether every single one of these people can be trusted. My unfinished items of these types can be shared under the same license as long you make it clear that some of them are just me jotting down ideas. Because I am leaving, some other unfortunate woman will be targeted instead of me. I wont wirehead myself into the perfect victim. They become extraordinary by hiding what is ordinary about themselves. Imagine what the rest of my life has been like. I needed someone special. I have never gotten such a large beep on my amoral manipulator radar as I did with Arc. I was harmed by your sex offenders, multiple different times. My life was tedious and very lonely. The problem is lack of motivation, because my situation is one where I will experience many punishments no matter what I do, and people are stonewalling rather than helping. Even if it was, I would be very upset because I would continue to experience a lack of respect. So, I cant be myself in these movements because the risk is too high. I hope at least some of you will warn the prettiest women that they should leave, especially if the sex offenders start targeting them. Facebook gives people the power to share. He was killed.". ? my instincts scream. We are sad to announce that on February 1, 2023, at the age of 74, Thelma Ford of Anderson, Indiana, born in Middlesboro, Kentucky passed away. Kathy departed this life on March 10, 2021. It may take up to 1 hour for your comment to appear on the website. I am barely myself anymore. I actually already went through that before I found the rationality and effective altruism movements. People could decide my human rights are not important at all, or not worth any effort, because I am happy. Im spent. Im exhausted because this hurts too much, and violates too many of my values. Dont let them have so much halo effect! Sue is survived by her children, Doug and Suzanne Ford, Danny and Kathy Ford, and Don and Cathy Ford . There need to be regular calls for survivors to remind people to report to Julia Wise and the police. Kathleen "Kathy" Teres (Daniels) Ford, 59 of Alanson, passed away on June 23, 2020 at the McLaren Northern Michigan Hospital following a lengthy illness. This went on for months. A corpse is nothing to be jealous of. The son of Kathy Ford and Ennio Stirpe, Michael dropped his father's surname and took on the Ford name in 2014 before he commenced his campaign for city councillor. Echovita offers a solidarity program that gives back the funds generated to families. People need for these independent review statistics to be obvious and available in at least the majority of places where they actually read crime statistics. If you want things to get better, you have to be willing to acknowledge the problem. I would have to act like someone else all day. It excited him. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Here is an article from a journalist who can see this problem: So now that youve read it, I bet you feel the way that I would have if I hadnt seen this type of nonsense myself. If the police dont take all the reports of severe harm seriously and go deal with every dangerous person they can, this will show in the crime statistics. Want some examples? She is preceded in death by her. Some time after Ford's disappearance, her boyfriend, Darvin Moon, discovered her badly burned truck 75 yards from Ford's trailer home. The independent organization needs to follow up on the reports to see if the police did their best with the information available. Also survived by a large extended family. If you are suicidal or a sexual violence survivor, I would urge you to exercise extreme caution, as this essay was written by someone at the nadir of a depression induced by her sexual trauma. I created an infographic with 25 examples of the stonewalling Ive been encountering this whole time. It is a strange kind of torture to be chemically uplifted while the rest of my humanity is ignored. Kathy was born December 24, 1961 in Galveston County, Texas. I really needed help with that part but people didnt believe in the problem enough to invest the time into negotiating how I can prove this is a real problem. Amluxen said Ford will be greatly missed by family members and her many friends. Funeral Mass will be held Wednesday, April 26th at 11am. The Dallas Morning News Homepage. I posted this note with the intention of spreading her message undistorted, and it should not be assumed that I endorse any of her specific claims. Do we take care of our elderly parent, or the baby? Is it because offenders feel more powerful when targeting a young-looking person? There isnt enough food. Telling yourself its always temporary and impulsive just causes you to ignore bad situations. I would need that person to be safe so that I can be safe. If the independent review organization follows up on a random sample of crime reports, theyll be able to do the highest quality job on fewer reports. Share Obituary. This part is absolutely necessary for effectiveness. I also tried showing my abilities to a few of the high status people. 7. When I went to report him to Julia Wise of CEA, he was already banned from EA Global. This does not look like a fluke. Assume you will need to help change the persons situation in some way. There is no photo or video of Thelma Ford.Be the first to share a memory to pay tribute. If they make gaslighting or smearing attempts, these are futile because you can go and verify that they misbehave by talking to people who know them, or perhaps some of the authorities involved will confirm. I was strategic enough to make noise, get attention, and light a few controlled burns. I noticed this and wondered why it was. I didnt want to be stigmatized and dismissed, so I maintained as much optimism as possible. Would you like to offer Thelma Fords loved ones a condolence message? The person is creating a costly signal for you! Towns want to look safe. A good book is Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman. I value respect, personhood and alliance regardless of whether I am happy. Kathy Ford's Net Worth Kathy Ford had an estimated net worth of $3. I should have shown off only to women. It would be ideal if they could rigorously evaluate every persons report, but the world is not ideal. I know women can smell mens testosterone, and that women respond to it. What is happiness without meaning? Its now four months later, and Im thoroughly burnt out on being stonewalled. Given the lower risk and the uncertainty about whats even happening, I decided not to out this person. I might consult with them about how to evaluate a security risk, but I would only ask them to take action to protect me when I am genuinely afraid and think the risk is too high. Ill donate X in the future if you take sexual violence seriously as a community? That just seems like an attempt to purchase a belief, a bribe. Every city will have people making weird and incomplete reports, and also people making false accusations, so cities should still be comparable to each other in the end. This is obvious nonsense. Without a concept like super survivors people like me will be ignored. Either somebody very clever has been stalking me or there was a really unlikely bunch of coincidences. If the nasty people worry that they risk being named as part of the execution of peoples wills, maybe they will leave the movement and go somewhere else! What I need is to be alive and flourishing in my own skin, not just going through the motions, trapped in my body, with my mind on mute for the rest of my life. Prepare a personalized obituary for someone you loved.. November 4, 1958 - If they do, people move there, and spend money. He is not disposable. Instead theyre throwing out spitball ideas they havent even spent five minutes thinking through, and enjoying a false sense of security because there now seems to be a solution. I wish the views we discussed about human trafficking were heard throughout EA. She was 80. There is no nepenthe for dignity. Please report any offenses now. Ask a professional user interface designer about why the independent review organizations statistics need to be right there displayed in a really obvious way whenever people look at crime statistics. She was also cherished by numerous cousins, nieces, and nephews. Now youve seen a little bit of my creativity. That needs a warning label! She was also an expert photographer who developed her own film in a dark room in her home, as well as a gifted violinist. Please believe that at least some people can experience a real alliance with a protector, possibly most women. After becoming fat, it completely stopped. Its the wrong reason to follow someone. Police dont really want to take your crime report and seriously evaluate it either. In my case, I never ended up with a double chin or other ugly features in my face from the fat, so I couldnt evade the risk this way. A lot of people didnt want to acknowledge the risk because they think it will be a PR problem. Is it because young-looking people are more attractive? He is my sacred, cherished protector. I dont know what I would do if my frustration level were even higher, or my if my motivation to be careful were even lower. Prepare a personalized obituary for someone you loved.. April 8, 1948 - I dont want you to see me like that. I am not going to enjoy my future with a problem this large that I cant solve. This does happen. Nancy Crim. I have been thinking like a rationalist and effective altruist for 20 years. It is specifically the capacity for protecting me against abuse. Its not their fault they have survival instincts. According to FBI data, teens and young women are targeted for sexual violence 510 times more often than older women. You wont know how backed up they are. She was born September 26, 1969 in Port Huron, Michigan. Other people had the same experience with them. They have to keep the police accountable, not make friends with them. Now that I am aware of this, I can sort of adjust for my own optimism bias by thinking things will be significantly worse than I think. Let others know about your loved one's death. I am horrified at the thought of the ghoulish things I could become if I lost hope in the dignity, personhood and moral weight that encourage me to preserve what is good about me. I am not sure how they do this yet, but I think their bag of tricks includes lying about and hiding stuff other people dont bother to. If you are reading this and feel hopeless too, please contact me or a person you trust. Another way I could really harm effective altruism is if I continue sliding downward like this. This has only relocated the hot potato. I did this for months as a job. Did you know theres this whole super dedicated group of people in a branch of EA that could be really high-impact called suffering reduction? Kathy Forth was an abuse reduction writer, volunteer project coordinator for EAGxAustralia and aspiring data scientist. The warning label is right there. It was yours. Oh, sure, people ask for evidence, and then always find some flaw because it is not possible to provide perfect research, then ignore the problem. Someone I know said theyre sick of everyone warning against Arc. I would encounter the same stonewalling and rape myths. Getting people to constantly rush to save the world means theyll constantly be vulnerable to cons. It will look like crime is low. Kathy was born on November 4, 1958 in Midland, Texas to Dwain and Wanda. You need citizens. These are the environments that I want to be in. He is one of the few people Ive met that can do this at a high level. She was an effective altruist who specialized in understanding people through "She was just very outgoing.". Spitballing a person in need is a de facto DoS attack. I ended up imagining a way to destroy the effective altruism movement. This is disgusting, but part of the problem is that some men are turned on by the thought of sexual violence. I named this safety pragma. This site is provided as a service of SCI Shared Resources, LLC. Maybe they just couldnt imagine how this could happen to someone because they didnt know that some women are targeted for sexual violence disproportionately. Inez Gaslin. "He was killed on I-94 and Second (Streetin Detroit). What is needed here is quality not quantity. I am pretty sure my future will be filled with security problems, trauma, chaos, dysfunction, financial problems, etc. If you weaken it, you violate it. This is very much needed! What you need to make this orderly is called statistical significance, and one of the things statistical significance requires is a large enough sample size. For me, orgasm releases a bunch of chemicals that result in very strong emotional bonding whether I want it to or not. They should not review the same place every time. Being abused and enslaved are depressing, and will only make a suicidal person feel worse. That means I eventually started to notice a pattern where Id see red flags shortly after my creativity, intelligence, and passion showed. They are not beyond reproach, but if you let them have enough halo effect, you will be weak to the illusions they want you to have about them. She is also survived by Neighbors, and Sydney Hall; and 5 great-grandchildren. Shower him in work opportunities. Her first marriage, to David DuRoss, ended tragically. In reality, if he protects what I want him to protect me specifically of course then I will automatically feel inspired to cherish him. I think there are women whose lives are hells of sexual violence and nobody believes them. I could leave rationality, effective altruism and programming to escape the male-dominated environments that increase my sexual violence risk so much. Every person harmed by a nasty person adds to the risk of being outed. If you are ever struggling, please know that there are places you can turn. Its plausible that this may also happen the other way around. I worked on bringing myself out. Authorize the publication of the original written obituary with the accompanying photo. We can find another way. I was able to get him fired. She doesnt pressure you. Drugs dont change a situation. What if I somehow found all the rationalists or effective altruists who are unlikely to cause sexual violence, and took them all for myself? He said I am brilliant and gave me other compliments like that. She attendedCass Technical High School in Detroit, and worked as a model in the 1960s. Maybe the women are just afraid. I told everyone this and no one seemed to care. The charmers polish constantly. Somewhere in my late 20s is when I noticed that classical conditioning had begun to set in. I thought about making a new network, but it would probably end up with the same gender ratio which multiplies my already elevated sexual violence risk. You can send your sympathy in the guestbook provided and share it with the family. Unless they can get the funding to do a high quality job on every single report, using the random sample to investigate what happened to fewer reports is actually a good thing. They show flaws here and there, but only to make themselves seem relatable (or because of sexual masochism, as in Wiblins case). If theres not enough funding to review every report, the random sample will still keep police accountable, and thats the goal. She grew up in Houston, Texas and graduated from Eisenhower High School. 4. It resembles prostitution. Miles Tidmarsh, Jake Coble, and Logan Thrasher Collins are brilliant and I hope they all get opportunities to actualize their potential. X-risk stuff isnt funding constrained last I knew. Kathleen "Kathy" Ford (nee Heidere) of Philadelphia, PA passed away on September 14, 2022 at her home in Cathedral Village surrounded by her loved ones. Its as simple as that. She had been transported to Pittsburghfrom her home in Palm Beach, Florida, to receive medical care, Amluxen said. 1949 - 2015. https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=648574109. She is survived by her husband, Willie Eugene Ford; brother, Deron Bachman (Pam); sons, Jeramie Cason and Ted Michael Cason (Jessica); grandchildren, Logan, Ariel, Cody, Chance, Dyllan and Ravyn; nieces, Heather and Ashton and nephew, Joshua. Funeral arrangement under the care ofBrown-Butz-Diedring Funeral Service & Crematory. Annie Kotowicz would probably make a brilliant suffering reductionist. Resources like https://samaritanshope.org/ are available around the clock to talk by phone or text. Logic is logic. Perhaps ask them to donate or volunteer in the future. 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